Bill Purvis Ministries

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Too Transparent

We hear the word “transparent” used a lot these days. In conversation with close friends last evening, it was brought to my attention that “being transparent” has not been my problem, yet it has been my problem. Let me explain. Being forthright and saying what I thought was necessary has never been difficult for me. Receiving the same is welcomed also. However, as I have grown in years and in faith, I realize now that my greatest strength was always my greatest weakness. Several years ago after a life changing experience in finances, relationships, & ministry, I spent several weeks fasting and praying for answers. Through that experience many things changed in me. For the better I might add. I discovered that Jesus refused to “disclose everything to people because he knew what was in their hearts”. I saw that discernment, knowing what to comment on, who to reveal personal things and private matters with was to be done with thought and wisdom. You see, my problem was not that I didn’t “open up”. My problem was that I was open to everyone about everything without exercising restraint. I created most of the “problems” with people. I freely gave them access to my personal life in ways that was foolish. Today it’s different and what a difference my life has taken on because of it. My relationships with a handful of others is at a level of depth that I never knew existed. My relationships with crowds and friends are in their proper place now. My personal life is full of enjoyment and peace. So here’s my takeaway from this; For some people transparency is a struggle and they should be more open. For others, it’s so natural that it should be guarded with wisdom because it provides fuel and fertilizer for deceitful people. May God give you wisdom to discern the level of and span of your transparency.

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